I am very proud of Mitchell today. He wanted cookies today and you know what he did? He made them himself. At first he wanted us to make them together, but I was in the middle of a math activity with Henry and Violet and said I wasn't in the mood to make cookies. I told him if he wanted cookies he could make them himself though. So he did.
He threw a bit of a fit at first because he wanted help reading the box and I wouldn't come in the kitchen, but eventually he brought me the box, I gave him a few pointers, and away he went. That all by itself was an accomplishment. Often, when he tries to do a big project, as soon as he comes across a bump of some sort, he gets derailed and moves on to something else. I didn't think he'd actually make the cookies all by himself without me at least directing.
Imagine my surprise when not only did he make cookies, but he was also very benevolent in involving Henry and Violet in helping him AND they cleaned up all the mess when they were done! He almost got distracted after the first batch went in the oven - 8 minutes is a looooong time for a kids with ADHD (or any kids!) to wait - but he managed to make it through and when they came out he was there to smell and taste and prepare another pan to go in. After they were done, there was great feasting and I was the proudest mama in town.